So, you meet a girl online and after sending a few messages back and forth on some dating site you are ready to take the next step and move the conversation over to your favorite instant messaging service and she agrees.
It’s a little late in the evening and after some more chatting the conversation starts to get a little flirty and naughty with the winky-face emoticons being used constantly by both parties. You feel confident enough to pop the “what are you wearing?” question and, thankfully, you read the situation correctly and she types back in detail (with another winky-face of course).
This response pushes your confidence higher and you suggest turning on your webcams so that you can see each other (up until now you two have only seen the few pictures posted on your profiles). She winks back an “ok” hinting that she wants to show you a lot more than just what she is wearing. But before you just go ahead and click that cam button here are 5 things you should think about so that you don’t fuck it up!
1: CLEAN YOURSELF UP
I’m not saying you have to go put on your best suit and tie but be aware of what you are wearing. It’s totally cool to wear your super comfortable F.B.I (Female Body Inspector) t-shirt with the mustard stain on the “B” while lounging around your house watching TV, but is that really what you want this chick to see you in the first time she checks you out? I know, you don’t really care what she is wearing (and are hoping it will be coming off anyway) but she does. And the better you look the more she will let you look at!
2: CLEAN YOUR SURROUNDINGS
Just like we don’t want the first thing she sees to be your sexiest stained t-shirt, we also don’t want her to see that messy pile of clothes on the floor or those dirty dishes and empty beer bottles sitting on the coffee table.
If you are on a laptop just move yourself somewhere comfortable with a clean wall behind you. If you are on a desktop and can’t angle it away from the mess than just go and move the mess over and out of the frame. And if you have a cute pet, feel free to have it “accidentally” jump up and/or walk into the frame while you are chatting.
3: LIGHTING
We all know from watching porn that bad lighting can ruin a scene and that holds true for webcam sex as well.
The first rule is that lighting from behind is no good so don’t sit in front of a window or a lamp, etc. Instead of making things brighter it actually will create shadows. You will look dark to the person watching. If you want to see more of her, she will probably expect to see you properly as well.
Now, this doesn’t mean turn on all the light either. Instead, try a few strategically placed lights at front angles to you that make you clear and visible… but can also hide or mask any body imperfections. I would suggest doing some tests with your webcam on and seeing what looks best. That way, when you get into this situation, you can quickly get set-up without much thought.
4: TURN OFF THE TV
Ya, you might have been watching TV while the two of you were chatting, but remember that with the live cam also comes the live sound and this girl doesn’t want to talk to you and show you her tits and ass with SportsCenter on in the background.
And, yes you can just “mute” it guys. But ONLY IF it is in a position where the flashing light from the TV screen won’t be visible on your cam (which it, more often than not, will be). Even then I would suggest turning it off so that you aren’t tempted to look at it. Because if you get caught glancing over at the TV while this chick is showing you how she can lick her nipples, her clothes will be going back on faster than you can say “highlight of the night.”
5: DON’T RUSH IT
Yes, I know that she “winked” at you and hinted that she wanted to get frisky, but that doesn’t mean that when her cam turns on the first thing you should say to her is “show me your tits” while your arm moves up and down revealing that you are already jerking off. Remember that this isn’t a webcam model on a live cam porn site. You aren’t paying $2.99/minute, so you can take your time.
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