Do you remember the fad for "choose your own adventure" books? They had several stories and you could choose exactly what you wanted the characters to do and follow the ensuing action. Joy Our Self is "choose your own adventure" porn. You browse through all the various cams and different girls, couples and men until you find the one you want and then it's up to you what happens next.

When you arrive at JoyOurSelf you can browse through many of the cams for free. You'll not see much, as all the action goes on in private and this is where you will have to sign up and part with your cash. Credits cost one dollar each and you can buy them in bunches of $29.99, $59.99, $79.99 and $99.99. All the private shows are charged at different levels, set by the performers themselves and these range from $1.50 a minute to $5.50 a minute. You will have to decide yourself if the cam show is worth the rate being asked for it.

I have to say that when you first arrive, the main page is a little daunting, but I suggest you keep to the links at the top of the dark, plum colored page. To find out who is currently online, click "Who's online." and you will get a page full of thumbnails, showing various girls a few guys and some couples and you can then choose which you want to go and see. I recommend going in for the "free chat" first, as you will get to interact with your chosen girl and you can find out if she will do all the kinky things you'd like her to do once you go private.

The free footage is soft core, you'll see clothed bodies and maybe some over the clothes rubbing, but little else. The quality of the video is quite good, though here is a bit of a time lag between their camera and the site in most cases. All cams are shown using flash players, so you may need to download a program before you can view everything properly. There are in depth help pages to aid you with this. You can expand the screen size, but the bigger you make it, the more pixelated it gets. Mostly the girls are young and slim and very eager to get you into private, where you pay for your time with them. There are categories for lesbians, BDSM, guys and mature but there are not many cameras active in this area. There are 8392 feeds in total and at the several different times I logged on, there were always a large number of cams active.

You could happily cruise around the free chats for hours being teased, but to get to the real action you've got to pay for it. To view a private show, simply click on the "private show" link and then check the price per minute before clicking through. The screen size is much bigger and much clearer when you're paying for the pleasure but there is no timer on the page, so make sure you keep an eye on the clock. Here you can get your chosen girl naked and instruct her to do anything. Most girls will play with their tits and pussies for you, fucking dildoes and vibrators and some will insert things into their tight assholes too. If you choose a couples cam you can instruct them to suck or fuck and enjoy directing your own porno.

This is obviously more expensive than conventional porn, for example if you buy $29.99 worth of credit and looked at girls with $1.50 a minute feeds you'd get just under 20 minutes for your money. But, you do get the extra thrill of ordering a girl, or a couple to do what you want them to do and you just don't get that with a usual porn site. Check Joy Our Self out for free first, then if you fancy a unique thrill, splash out for a private experience.