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By: Will Peters
Number of Reviews: 26
Average Score: 75

Real Sex Dates is part of a large network of adult personals sites. Like many larger sex dating sites, it combines typical online dating options with special adult features geared to inspire one to enjoy sexual pleasure whether it happens in the flesh or only on one's screen. Limited free access is given without cost and at least in my case I wasn't inundated with spam trying to get me to upgrade.

Still, judging from the number of negative comments from some our surfers, some folks feel as if they've been misled beyond the mere exaggerations some people might make when filling out an online profile. You see other than having limited access to sending "flirts" on RealSexDates you can't communicate in any other direct way with members before you pay. You can even read, let alone reply to, email you receive.

Some users have clearly felt deceived by the emails that they've received and then had to upgrade to read and answer. It's a common enough complaint though in the online dating world and whether you feel the site itself is spamming you or a webcam model is independently trying to drum up business, you need to use common sense before spending (and potentially wasting) your money.

You can do free local searches using U.S. zip codes, so that's probably the best way to judge whether there's much activity in your neck of the woods. If you find profiles that seem too good to be true as a rule of thumb they're probably not worth your time regardless of who's behind the ruse. Unfortunately for those from Canada, the U.K. and other countries, your search results will be nationwide.

If you upgrade, the advanced search options allow people based on the information provided in all the optional subsections of their descriptions including sexual likes, physical details and more precise personality traits or simply a member's profile name. It still doesn't help out those from outside the U.S. better results.

Paid members receive unlimited access to sending and receiving emails, ecards and flirts. A quick post method lets you add a comment at the bottom of any profile you peruse. Premium memberships also come with several additional, real-time contact options including live text and video chats.

Do I think that you could make a real connection through this site? I always think that if you're really savvy and know how to weed out the fake profiles from the real ones that you might stand the chance of actually meeting someone. However, that's an awful lot of work in the case of this site. In the end, Real Sex Dates requires you pay to play and there's no guarantee that gamble will pay off.

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Latest Comments

  • Comment by: michelle

    Score: N/A Date: 04/24/2013

    The site is a scam, they lure in men with fake emails and will continue to bill you after they ban you from there site. I am a female who was a member and I am writing this so no more men will be robbed of there money on false promises. Please join as a free member and watch how many fake emails you get. Then if you complain about not getting responses from female members they will kick you off. It is a joke.

  • Comment by: gregg pollard

    Score: 75% Date: 10/02/2011

    I have so many problems with this sight..Have gotten viruses,and have reported to microsoft and MSN..

  • Comment by: rocco

    Score: 1% Date: 10/07/2010

    I can t believe I fell for this crappy site again. They put a lot of flirts and fake emails on your site, then you pay and never hear from anyone again. It s because they aren't really on here and do not exist. I am getting some help composing a formal complaint and sending it to the Attorney General, FTC, local district attorney, BBB. I hope I have a hand in shutting this scam down.

  • Comment by: Idiotforbelieving

    Score: 2% Date: 09/17/2010

    This site is a total scam. I paid for one month by check in mail, and i never got access to the site. I complained and the owner said he never received a check. BULLSHIT. He stole my $30. I get emails from women who say they are 22 years old, but 2 years later somehow have not aged! Wow must be a stasis chamber or something. SCAAAMMMMM!!!!!!

  • Comment by: david

    Score: 1% Date: 09/10/2010

    it s a RIPOFF.

  • Comment by: The Truth

    Score: N/A Date: 07/11/2010

    All of the positive reviews are fake, seeded here by the site operators.
    All of the negative reviews are TRUE. I did the same thing, signed up with no profile info and got flooded by emails and flirts.
    I m collecting data on this site and will be forwarding a complaint to the FBI fraud investigation team.

  • Comment by: jhh

    Score: N/A Date: 04/13/2010

    total scam site

  • Comment by: sufiyan

    Score: 79% Date: 03/21/2010

    # 7:22:50 PM
    Whats good im feeling dirty and horney
    # Comments by: mar - Score: 0/100 - Date: 12/1/2009 6:19:36 PM
    this site sucks big time- any profile that shows it s been over a week since they have been on is no longer active- this site lets you believe they have a huge inventory of profiles- yes there are a lot of profiles but most are no longer active- so don t waste your time- move on
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  • Comment by: mar

    Score: N/A Date: 12/01/2009

    this site sucks big time- any profile that shows it s been over a week since they have been on is no longer active- this site lets you believe they have a huge inventory of profiles- yes there are a lot of profiles but most are no longer active- so don t waste your time- move on

  • Comment by: FRED

    Score: N/A Date: 11/30/2009

    there are no real people on this site, it exists just to get your money and nothing else.

    REAL Crappy

  • Comment by: PissedPunk

    Score: N/A Date: 11/18/2009

    Just interested to see what would happen. Waste of time. Paid (mistake), Got messages, I replied, and that was that, no more. One said she noticed I was in her area she was 200 miles away?!?! Anyone saying this site is good is a shill. Norton says it has security risks too!! One word rates this site: BULLSHIT!

  • Comment by: Didn t pay

    Score: N/A Date: 11/06/2009

    I opened 2 free accounts to see what would happen. 1 with a pic, 1 without. On the same days, both accounts had messages saying the same exact thing word for word. I told the owner about it and he denied my accusation and gave me a free month paid. Not one single letter that whole month. As soon as my script ran out, The letters were pouring in again. SCAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Comment by: osking

    Score: 1% Date: 09/22/2009

    completely fake as stated above. once your actually pay to become a member the women that you got all those emails from will never respond to you. it s just bait.

  • Comment by: thaBoss4Now

    Score: N/A Date: 09/06/2009

    This site ABSOLUTELY BOGUS. I received 60+ emails from female members as a non-paying member with titles like F@*k me and If we F@*ked would you... Of course I couldn t read the messages themselves, only the headers. I upgraded for $30 and replied to each and every one of them--no reply. Also, now the emails have stopped, now that they have my $30. NEVER AGAIN! RIPOFF!

  • Comment by: Michael

    Score: 10% Date: 08/22/2009

    Baited. Have no Picture or infromation in my profile and i am getting messages and flirts like crazy.

  • Comment by: DonMaximus

    Score: 5% Date: 04/29/2009

    I call the fake adds fluffers. Profiles that trick you into a subscription or renewals. The advance search engine sucks on this site. Limits you to 75 miles. Go elsewhere.