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March 24, 2006

Opening up your fantasies can be a lot of fun.

There is a phrase for lesbians nearing the end of their relationship and it's referred to as "lesbian bed death." However, I'm not exactly sure that the phrase simply refers to dykes, but rather it seems that it could be applied to any couple whose sex life has become as exciting as watching a plant grow.

I've sadly been in a couple of those relationships before and on one occasion I attempted to spice things up by renting a uniform and in role, waltzed into the bedroom only to be met with hysterical laughter. This, of course, was a pivotal moment in that particular relationship, which I suddenly ended with as much fervour as my partner's laugh on that particular evening. The relationship had pretty much had its day before that point, yet in retrospect, I suppose I should have given my lover a bit of warning. After all, not everyone will expect something like that out of the blue, and similarly not everyone will be comfortable by the sudden prospect of a sexual improve scenario.

One thing is certain and that's that we all want sex that drives us mad or at least teases our imaginations. Unfortunately for some couples, there's a serious lack of communication when it comes to getting sexual needs or desires met. So, how do we introduce a bit of kink into the bedroom and at the same time learn more about our partner's fantasies while telling about our own desires? Games.

Funny enough, a lot of games are based in part on our earlier experiences, so rules are simple to follow. Hot and cold, hide and seek and truth or dare, for example, can all be turned into sexual foreplay. All you a couple needs is willingness, openness and imagination, and the doors will begin to open and sex will be yours!

It seems like a silly idea to play games when you could just be having sex, but half the excitement of playing a game is the anticipation of the outcome and in sex games everyone wins. I happened upon a site recently that had a whole list of games to play and so I thought I'd share them with you and mulling them over I, myself, might just check some of them out!

Posted by sloth at March 24, 2006 4:05 AM

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