By: Groundhog

Obviously in this line of work, reviewing porn and sex dating sites, one tends to become a pro at making double entendres. Being subtlety sexy with a little word play can come across as clever or very corny so it isn't necessarily the best approach to flirting for everyone. One advantage is that it never comes across as too serious and you can always back off saying it was a joke. If you're smart and funny, then using humor can be very sexy.

Flattery is only as good as the fool it flatters. Gushing is definitely not hot. Learning to give compliments that are creative and backing them up with an intelligent personal observation carries much more weight than just saying "nice" things to someone. Simple rules to remember, if you feel that your phrase should be prefaced by "you've probably heard this a million times before", save your breath since

anything repeated over and over is not only unoriginal it's boring and meaningless. Never overstate the obvious.

One cliché characteristic to compliment is the eyes. They are the windows to the soul. Even insecure people tend to believe their souls are beautiful, it's a sure bet.

Perhaps you should consider the direct approach, if you're no poet and not too witty. When you're after sex not romance, sometimes being straightforward is the simplest and most direct way to get what you want. You may risk rejection but in the long run you'll save time and energy when you stop beating around the bush. Sorry but I warned you the sexual innuendos come too easily to me.